Words and pictures

My blogging buddy and friend over at BrainPickles ended a recent email to me with this favorite:

‘When you wake up in the morning, Pooh,’ said Piglet at last,  ‘what’s the first thing you say to yourself?’

‘What’s for breakfast?’ said Pooh. ‘What do you say, Piglet?’

‘I say, I wonder what’s going to happen exciting today?’ said Piglet.

Pooh nodded thoughtfully. ‘It’s the same thing,’ he said.’


I know I’ve been out of touch lately, but what happened to the verb “lend”?  Did we lose it?  Or ban it?  Or lend it to someone and they never returned it?  Best I can guess is it’s been replaced with “loan,” which I thought all these years was a noun. You don’t use nouns as verbs, do you?

And “snuck”?  When did that replace “sneaked”?


Recently the 7-year old grandson and I were in the final moves of a savage game of Go Fish.

I asked for all his Whales.

He pulled 3 Whales out of his hand and slapped them down in front of me.

“Dammit!” he said and laughed nervously.

Seven years old.  Dammit (the children’s spelling). The mom reflex kicked in.  But, as I started to open my mouth to chide him for his language I thought, so what? Dammit is a perfectly fine, cathartic word I consider appropriate if you have to hand over 3 Whales when you’re this close to skunking yer old Didi at cards.

Whose sensibilities would I tell him we shouldn’t offend? The Bible thumpers who think cussing is a sin?  Please.  They’ve offended me  enough already.

Go for it kid.  Dammit.


Anita at SciFiKnitter shared the best response I’ve heard for the stupid question that perpetuates the stigma of lung cancer, “Did you smoke?”

Does it matter?

She attributes the response to Deanna Hendrickson, of LCMSChat.
Thanks, Deanna.


I’m thrilled for Jimmy Carter and his great test results, but words matter.


Seems Jimmy Carter and I both got good news last week. I had my first PET/CT scans after completing treatment. The original tumor, which was quite large, is gone and there is No Evidence of Disease (NED).

I want to be clearer than Carter’s people were.  No tumor does not mean cure and that there are no cancer cells in my body.  They could just be small and hiding, ready to grow again.

What these pictures mean is I’m in “remission,” according to my oncologist, so today and every day it stays that way is mighty fine with me. Dammit.


My daughter is really, really good at voices — imitating and making up her own. I’ve always wanted her commit this from Auntie Mame to memory so she could entertain her old mother (which I’m sure some of you are thinking about now, doesn’t take much.)

“Bunny Bixler and I were in the semi-finals—the very semi-finals, mind you—of the ping-pong tournament at the club and this ghastly thing happened. We were both playing way over our heads and the score was 29-28. And we had this really terrific volley and I stepped back to get this really terrific shot. And I stepped on the ping-pong ball! I just squashed it to bits. And then Bunny and I ran to the closet of the game room to get another ping-pong ball and the closet was locked! Imagine? We had to call the whole thing off. Well, it was ghastly. Well, it was just ghastly.”

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  • Auntie Mame
  • Board games

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10 responses to “Words and pictures”

  1. Glad you’re in remission. I am too. I thought about the “words” when I heard Jimmy Carter or his folks say he was cancer-free. I didn’t think that existed since it’s entirely normal for even unafflicted people to have cancer cells in their body. The difference is that their body fights them off. Anyhow, good for him!

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  2. NED = Remission = Excellent news

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  3. You’re going on 10 years, aren’t you? Seems I remember that number reading your blog.


  4. There are perfectly acceptable times for expletives and that for sure was one of them. Awesome story. I hope you remind him of it when he’s older. Which means you will also be older and still healthy. xx

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    1. Thanks! I guess having cancer makes you question some of the things you’ve done all your life. That was one of them.

      How is your husband? Doing well, I hope.


  5. Dammit, I’m *liking* this many more times than just the one…

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  6. Dammit, Jots, thanks! But not more than I *like* your art!


  7. I loved every word of this post from Pooh and Piglet to dammit to Auntie Mame and board games, but I was especially made happy by your good news: words I’ve hoped and waited to hear.

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    1. And I love your comments. Thank you.

      I just read your post about your red Christmas dress and your mother’s response to your disappointment. Beautiful post and wise words.

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  8. Hi! I like your posts, too.

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This blog started out as letters to my dog maizie but devolved into meaningless observations from a half-deaf cancer alumnus introvert navigating the noise you other people make.


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